Truly loving someone means loving them even when I don’t “feel” like loving them. This can be a struggle, because my flesh tells me that it’s all about me.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[a] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 ESV